I've been reminded how polite and friendly the world of planning etc is. In the three and a bit years I've been doing this blog I think there've only been one or two occasions when I've felt uncomfortable about a comment someone's left on here. (And I have a very low uncomfortable threshold, I hate conversational friction). But every now and then I wonder out into the blogosphere and realise what a vitriolic and contentious place it can be.
I'm a big fan of Mr Noodlepie's for instance, so I check out the stuff he does on Comment Is Free. He wrote this thoughtful little thing about farmer's markets a while back. Fairly uncontentious. But look at all the comments. Spleen. Vitriol. Ignorance. Insult. It's bizarre. Graham seems to shrug it off with good grace, he is after all, a professional journalist, but I have to say, it would put me off writing for them. (Not that that's likely.) Comment Is Free is such a splendidly designed site with such noble intentions. And the atmosphere is being ruined by this weird commenting behaviour. I don't know what the answer is, but it's weird and ugly.
And speaking of weird and ugly, you should see what Steve Sailer is doing over at Malcolm Gladwell's blog. Mr Gladwell wrote this really interesting piece about racism, which provoked a burst of comment from Mr Sailer. And has led to some strange sort of comment wars, and much discussion about whether blogs 'should' have comments. Personally I think everyone's entitled to have exactly the blog they want and if they don't want comments fair enough. I have comments because you lot make the whole thing better but I'd turn them off in a second if you weren't all so funny, interesting and helpful.
And Anil Dash has nailed something similar here - the way the web facilitates the angry, self-righteous blogger/commenter/reviewer arse as much as it facilitates all the reasonable, thoughtful reviews people write. It's so easy to vent online, so easy to complain, moan, laugh and point, and there's very little comeback involved. The normal anti-complaining social pressure isn't brought to bear. So I like the way he names and shames the unreasonable complainer. Good work.
This blogging thing is teaching us all some interesting lessons. About how much we're willing to share (more than you might have suspected), how many interesting ideas people have (more than you might have suspected) and how much effort it takes to run a civilised 'commons' (more than you might have suspected). Reflex angry blogging is easy and normally pointless. Angry commenting is easier and even more pointless. I hope it's something we all grow out of. And I'm glad none of it shows up here.